Actions Say More Than Words

If someone cares about you or really appreciates you, they show it by being there with a simple conversation, message or other unexpected action that surprises you. Yet people continue to give their time and attention to those who are not worth it. Isn’t it time to get rid of the blindfold that keeps you from seeing what’s really going on? Remember that actions say more than words.

Actions say more than words

Words can be carried away by the wind, or at least we know it in theory. In practice, we ignore it with overwhelming ease. Saying “I love you”, “I need you”, or “I like you” is a relatively simple thing to do. But where are the actions that say more than words?

Sometimes, to find out if you really mean something to someone, it is enough to perform a simple exercise. Cover your ears and just observe. Look at everything that has happened up to this point, everything that has been shown through a silent movie that you are watching. What do you see?

The odds are that what you observe will amaze you and also illustrate the truth about a situation that you have otherwise been blind to. This is because you have given incredible value to words that were never translated into action, causing you to suffer for no reason.

You believe in all the excuses that people make when they do not demonstrate their love through practice. You justify their absence because you want to be sympathetic to them.

However, this can undermine your self-esteem, hurt you – and who will help you then? You just have to look in the mirror. There is only one person who has always been there and told you the truth through so many lies.

The self-willed blindness

This is probably not the first time you have realized how blind a situation has made you. Sometimes, however, you return to the same point of view that allows you to see what you want.

While looking for another situation, you fall into the one that hurts, but that’s because you allowed it! You should have already learned to open your eyes from the start and see if a person is on your side or not, the actions say more than words.

Let us look at a simple example, even if the situation is far from easy. Imagine that two people fall in love and one of them is married. This circumstance does not have an easy solution. The married person gives the other hope that they will divorce so that the two lovers can be together.

So what happens? Months pass, or even a year, and yet the situation is the same. He who has no obligation continues to believe the words of the other, who do not act according to what they say. Although painful, it is important to do what we said earlier. Cover your ears, open your eyes, and finally you will see clearly that the actions say more than words.

It’s not about looking for a guilty party, but about getting away from a situation filled with false hope that prevents you from being free and loving your own life.

Show me you care about me

Show me how much you value me, how much you care about me, how much you love me with your actions. But do not fool me anymore with empty words that are not supported by what you do.

Stop believing and let yourself be carried by the hope of another reality that will never be true. Do not fall into the same trap as always. Open your eyes once and for all, from the start, and do not choose the easy option of the treasure chest filled with expectations and dreams that will never take shape.

Let this be an experience to learn from for everyone. Show others that your forgiveness is sincere and always be consistent with what you say and do. What really matters is your actions they say much more than words.