Do Not Give Up Love; Give Up The Wrong People

Love is a beautiful feeling  that everyone deserves to experience. However, you have probably also suffered and been injured during this experience. But  do not give up love. This would be a serious mistake.

It is better to give up all those who did not know how to love you as you deserved. Or it is better to  decide to stop making the same mistakes  and let yourself be led by ideals or expectations that eventually collapse over time.

Love can be incredibly painful when we fill it with addiction, jealousy, abuse, possession or insecurity.

Therefore, it is important not to give up love, but rather what you thought it was until now.

Do not give up love because of toxic relationships

Sometimes it is the people who least suit us, who seem to grab our heart the strongest.

We idealize them from the start, but what happens over time? Everything changes,  nothing is the same, or maybe we did not see it before.

Sometimes, when we have very strong feelings for someone, we can become blind. Suddenly everyone around us says that they are not so good for us, but we insist that they are wrong.

We close our eyes  to try to make “then they lived happily ever after” a reality. After all, we all secretly believe that you can find the knight in shining armor or the sensitive and beautiful princess…

But it’s not the same to find people we end up making a toxic link with. People who cover the word “love” with pain.

We must learn to put aside the expectations and dreams that are only real in movies.

This is real life, and here there are no princes or princesses as in movies. What we find are many people who can hurt us very much if we close our eyes from the beginning instead of opening them.

What do you think love is?

We’ve talked about princes and princesses, but what about finding “the better half”? This is a more modern concept, but it can still be incredibly harmful.

Society gives us a need to find a partner, because this is synonymous with success in relationships. To  call the other person “the better half” may get you to love in an unrealistic manner.

Emotional addiction

Many  people struggle every day in their lives with emotional addiction. This is a problem that is easy to fall into, but difficult to get out of.

You leave yourself to the other person, and think that without them you are nobody. But who were you before you had a partner for the first time?

Connecting with someone is not love, and the same goes for being dependent on someone. Love is free and it must let you grow. When it exhausts you, wears you out, makes you suffer, or suffocates you, it is not love. Believe us, it’s something else.

It is your fear that speaks, your insecurity and your deep fear of loneliness.

Sometimes you do not enter into new relationships because you love the other person, but rather because you feel relieved to find someone who is interested in you, who cares about you and who wants to be by your side.

Be careful with this. Sooner or later you will suffer, and if you do not understand what is happening, you can end up in one relationship after another without taking healthy breaks.

Each relationship will be twice as painful as the previous one. However, we are in this life to suffer. Isn’t it time we start releasing the pain caused by a mistaken belief in what love is?

Love does not mean to struggle or suffer

Do not give up true love. Give up love that makes you suffer and cry  every night over someone who is not really worth it.

You think so, because you have made this person the center of your world.

But when you open your eyes and see the situation with a little perspective, you will realize that it was not such a big deal, that the other person was not worth suffering and giving so much for.

Do not give up love. Give up on the people you can not build a healthy relationship with,  whether it is because there are things you need to heal in yourself or because the other person is not able to offer you what you need.

There are people whose false ideas about love mean they do not know how to love, and perhaps you have met many of them.

No matter what your situation is, do not give up love.

Illustrations courtesy of Elodie Nadreau