Is Fighting To Stay Together A Sign Of Love?

Fighting to stay together can be seen as very romantic. But after all, is it really worth fighting for a love that is nearing its end?

So what are the reasons why we strive like this?

Maybe the situation is that your partner is abusing you, but you endure it because you want the relationship to continue.

Does it always make sense to fight to stay together? Many people have said that love should not be difficult. Love is created day by day, and both partners are involved in this process.

When it is strenuous, it is clear that something is not going well. Either way, you should be reluctant to accept it. You insist on breaking down a wall created between you. 

Fighting to stay together is a real effort

It is important to remember that fighting to stay together can be a waste of energy. You put all your time and energy into a relationship that shows signs of breaking down.

Maybe you have broken up and been together many times. We call this a “periodic relationship”.

It is also possible that you and your partner live far apart, and that the distance makes things difficult. Still, there you are, at the bottom of the crevasse,  still hopeful and with unrealistic expectations.

Even if you are able to end the fight to stay together, you know that many other couples have the same fight. You do not want to take that step, just in case.

Love seems to justify almost everything, and you think you have to fight for love. But is this really true?

Some couples in periodic relationships will often not realize that things will probably always be the same between them.

Maybe it’s a distance relationship, and it looks like you’ll never be together forever.  How long will it take for both of them to continue to maintain the unrealistic hope that things will move forward?

To fight for love

Often it will seem as if we are given a relationship instead of having to work for it. However, this is not always the case.

When fighting for a relationship, you should never accept that your partner is abusing you, not showing you respect, or humiliating you. You should also not accept infidelity.

There are things in a relationship that one must be able to endure, but it should never mean that one person is allowed to make the other suffer.

For example, if a person is without a job, financial problems may arise. It is also possible that having children can lead to problems.

In these situations, you both have to make an effort because the  relationship needs to move forward, and there are situations beyond your control.

On the other hand, if the other person is causing your pain, why do you accept it? To let them destroy you?

In love .. not everything is worth it

If you have to fight to stay together, it’s time to think about whether it’s worth it to be together.

In the examples we have already described, sometimes the relationship is different than what we already know is true. Either way,  you have to push forward in the name of love.

Still, do not forget that  love is not everything, and it can not  do everything. You may fall in love with someone who ends up hurting you, but that does not mean you have to accept it.

Remember that it is  you who must come first. After all, your happiness is the most important thing, and if you are fighting for nothing, it’s time to stop fooling yourself and throw in the towel.

You also need to learn to see things in perspective in order to make the best decisions in your relationship.